Comments on: Clearing anger and rage from past sexual violations? http://www.healingexamples.com/sex-sexuality-intimacy-pornography-dysfunction/releasing-the-anger-and-rage-from-past-sexual-violations-and-traumas/ More than an ART . . . Fri, 30 Jul 2010 19:36:17 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=abc hourly 1 By: Jen http://www.healingexamples.com/sex-sexuality-intimacy-pornography-dysfunction/releasing-the-anger-and-rage-from-past-sexual-violations-and-traumas/comment-page-1/#comment-3115 Jen Sun, 04 Apr 2010 10:49:06 +0000 http://www.healingexamples.com/?p=32#comment-3115 I find it really interesting to read what people have written on here. I have read Maya's article and can't help seeing the similarity of her experience and mine last night. I go through phases with my current life trauma of early childhood sexual abuse, sometimes I scream, and I get very angry and sometimes sob uncontrollably, I know its part if the healing process but its hard too at the time. I am spiritual too and am a medium, and I have been getting the cards of 'past life issues' so may try past life regression to see where my issues have come from on a soul level. Jen I find it really interesting to read what people have written on here.

I have read Maya’s article and can’t help seeing the similarity of her experience and mine last night.

I go through phases with my current life trauma of early childhood sexual abuse, sometimes I scream, and I get very angry and sometimes sob uncontrollably, I know its part if the healing process but its hard too at the time.

I am spiritual too and am a medium, and I have been getting the cards of ‘past life issues’ so may try past life regression to see where my issues have come from on a soul level.

Jen

]]> By: maya http://www.healingexamples.com/sex-sexuality-intimacy-pornography-dysfunction/releasing-the-anger-and-rage-from-past-sexual-violations-and-traumas/comment-page-1/#comment-2530 maya Wed, 25 Nov 2009 12:44:23 +0000 http://www.healingexamples.com/?p=32#comment-2530 It's very possible that this release was partly about this, Nina. . .since it's started in a cafe with people looking down at me from swearing in public. . . I had no precise feeling of what this release was about. To me, it was it was just rage stuck in my sternum which I had to litterally 'express', like you would press on something to get the juice out. It was rage about not being able to say no when I had wanted to, out of fear, having to keep silent myself about wh, at I had gone through. . . This sternum pain lasted a couple of years and lessened little by little. It was where all my suppressed emotions were stored. It's completely gone now. It’s very possible that this release was partly about this, Nina. . .since it’s started in a cafe with people looking down at me from swearing in public. . . I had no precise feeling of what this release was about. To me, it was it was just rage stuck in my sternum which I had to litterally ‘express’, like you would press on something to get the juice out. It was rage about not being able to say no when I had wanted to, out of fear, having to keep silent myself about wh, at I had gone through. . .
This sternum pain lasted a couple of years and lessened little by little. It was where all my suppressed emotions were stored. It’s completely gone now.

]]> By: Nina http://www.healingexamples.com/sex-sexuality-intimacy-pornography-dysfunction/releasing-the-anger-and-rage-from-past-sexual-violations-and-traumas/comment-page-1/#comment-2529 Nina Wed, 25 Nov 2009 08:51:23 +0000 http://www.healingexamples.com/?p=32#comment-2529 Maya, did the sexual trauma you encountered in your past lives include people around you NOT helping you after the sexual abuse incidents? From the perspective of a rapist, being raped is bad enough. But for family and friends to withdraw support from the rape victim (for various reasons) and for police authorities to either NOT take the case seriously or worse, dump the case, is even WORSE. The stigma that the victim gets for being rape is very bad, but for justice NOT to be delivered at all will be the worst blow for the victim. For the victim's social circle to silence the victim herself -- that's the best way for her to feel alone and isolated. Maya, did the sexual trauma you encountered in your past lives include people around you NOT helping you after the sexual abuse incidents?

From the perspective of a rapist, being raped is bad enough. But for family and friends to withdraw support from the rape victim (for various reasons) and for police authorities to either NOT take the case seriously or worse, dump the case, is even WORSE. The stigma that the victim gets for being rape is very bad, but for justice NOT to be delivered at all will be the worst blow for the victim. For the victim’s social circle to silence the victim herself — that’s the best way for her to feel alone and isolated.

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