Comments on: Being ignored, invisible or not acknowledged by others

By: BMC

BMC — Tue, 27 Jul 2010 20:54:58 +0000

I don’t know what it is about me, but I am invisible – even when I blog.
My comments are thoughtfully written, insightful, articulate and civil, but I might as well be writing with invisible ink.
I really don’t get it.
I’m not looking for answers. I was just venting.
Thanks

By: lauren .R

lauren .R — Sat, 03 Jul 2010 10:24:58 +0000

im talking about being “invisible” i walk around to try to talk to what once was my friends i try speaking to them even standing in front of them they think im n ot even there. my twin sister blankes me i even live in the same house as her its like she tryies to walk through me but she pushes me out of the way and walks on, ive tried to ask why she blanks me and obviously she doesnt awnser me. she never askes me to go out to town or something with her to sort things out i even try asking but when she does end up listening to me she says that she is not going out but infact shes sneakily going. this makes me very upset as she has never asked me to do some fun / sister bonding things. i wish people can at least speak to me for once. ive tried to ask friends of friends whats going on but they say im diferent but the only diferent thing about me is that no one speakes to me.i hope anyone can give me advice thank you

By: farthest

farthest — Wed, 30 Jun 2010 10:51:38 +0000

Recently I said some weird strong and condemning things to a person who was in a weaker position.. I blasted him.. and put him way down.. and I live in a small village.. everyone has heard about my meanness.. I have no where to go, I feel sorry for my husband who has to live with a wife who has a bad reputation. My actions confirmed what had already been known that I am unstable and can freak out.. how does one live with this feeling?

By: Maggie

Maggie — Wed, 23 Jun 2010 17:43:32 +0000

Hi. I have been ignored, not acknowledged, passed over, etc. at work and in my first family. My talents or skills have not been acknowledged. I have always encouraged others in my family and my co-workers, but get none in return. I see it as jealousy, but what can be done about it?

By: Joe

Joe — Fri, 18 Jun 2010 00:36:54 +0000

I share your exact sentiment to a tee. I have gone thru and going thru exactly the same thing.

By: Cappy

Cappy — Tue, 11 May 2010 18:38:56 +0000

Ms Diamond, you could be my twin on many levels! Just goes to show you aren’t alone…and, you aren’t being totally ignored. Your post sure grabbed my attention.

By: Paul Middleton

Paul Middleton — Mon, 12 Apr 2010 18:59:49 +0000

I read your comment and the subsequent reply with a great deal of sadness. I too have suffered the same “ignorance” at places of work, which makes you feel invisible and worthless and no the answer is not to keep to yourself but to analyse your own qualities, what do you like about yourself, what can you do that others can`t and then try to do these things so well that these others have to stand up and take notice. If you still cant make headway with these people then you may need to consider a change of career. If life makes us miserable then we can change our life. My change of life is to start working with people who can`t help themselves i.e. mentally challenged or people with learning difficulties who rely on others to help them.

By: Un

Un — Sat, 03 Apr 2010 22:28:13 +0000

Dear Ms. Diamond,
I know your frustration and pain. (if I may say)?
Good for you, though – I don’t even have a job. My Name here is Un because it describes me to a tee: Unacceptable, Uneducated, Unskilled, Unlikable, Unlovable…. Somehow I’ve gone 54 years in this sad, painful, isolated life. I truly don’t know why I was not to have a nice life, like most people seem to. I am a very good, kind and generous person. It is the essence of me that is just not acceptable. Rejection has always been inevitable, so now I just keep to myself. It’s actually less painful that way.
You will be in my thoughts.

By: Ms. Diamond

Ms. Diamond — Thu, 18 Mar 2010 10:21:42 +0000

All of my life I have felt inferior and this world treats me like I have the plaque or something. I am not good at making friends or the friends I do have for some reason they do not talk with me any longer. I do not think that I have done anything wrong. People at my job the vas majority of them hardly even say 2 words to me unless they need something. I really do not see my purpose for being on this planet. What is the point?

It seems even at social settings, I feel over looked and ignored and is make me mad. Why should even make the effort to make these morons like me and I feel like if they want to talk with me step to me why should I make a fool out of myself. I have a hard time being friends toward people a lot of time they seem to give me attitude and I do not think that I have done anything wrong but mind my own business.

The vast majority of my Coworkers I do not talk to them or like them and do not care for a couple of my supervisors either because they seem to have an authority problem.

I have been at this particular job for a few years now and have yet to get promoted and often overlooked. I am know that I am highly qualified to do the job but you have people who are supervisors who have less education than myself who are appointed as a supervisor. Well, I am not glad for them at all because that does not have anything to do with me and I could care less. I only care about myself not those other people because they sure do not give a damn about me their actions show it.

I wished I had never been born or existed what is the point or purpose. I guess the only way people treat me like I am special if I was rich or something or struck money in the lottery then I guess they would be nice and acknowledge me then because they want some of my money and I would tell them off and were to stick it. I do not care about a lot of people’s feelings because they have zero regard for me and my feelings. I get so angry and jealous because people often ignore me but to talk to others. I hate other people talking to others but snub me like I have a disease or something. My life is so messed up for real. I wished I was perfect and rich and never having ever need God or people. I do not like wasting my precious time asking for help or making a stupid fool out of myself.

By: Clive

Clive — Thu, 29 Oct 2009 15:25:01 +0000

Hi ‘H’ often when people cause us harm or threaten then our strategies to keep ourselves ’safe’ are often about making sure that we don’t encounter or engage with such people. In effect you retreat AND most clients that have experienced the same have been found to have lots of barriers and ’subtle’ energies around them making sure that people stay away from them or they don’t take any notice of you even if your right in front of them; it’s the result of lots of still present ‘protection’ because of past events.