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Being ignored, invisible or not acknowledged by others

Posted by Clive
March 22, 2008

Have you ever experienced a time when people just don’t see you. That no matter what you do you are ignored, seemingly invisible your presence is not acknowledged almost like you don’t exist.

Repeatedly ignored, not acknowledged in interactions with people

While staying with a friend we both went off walking through their local village. It was a great day, the sun was out and it was actually quite hot. This was the first day like this after winter.

So, there were people out for walks passing through the village and at times they would start up a conversation with my friend. I would try and join in and this was the interesting thing, although this happened about three separate times and once even while sitting beside a couple at a table cafe, no matter what I said; no one acknowledged my presence.

I am not seen, people don’t speak to me, I don’t exist

It was absolutely amazing. I even walked around and stood directly in front of one couple to say something and still I was invisible. My friend was quite stunned, she could not believe what she was seeing either. Not one person even looked at me, not one directed a comment at me, not one replied to me when I spoke. I might as well have not existed.

You could say that these people were being impolite or ignorant.

In spiritual terms I would be common to be told that you either have to find what inside of you is RESPONSIBLE for causing this or in most cases you must ‘let it go’, to not allow it to effect you.

For many years I had been becoming progressively appalled at the ‘let it go’ approach; which is basically a sophisticated way to avoid looking for a cause, a way to adjust yourself until something does not bother you while you still have people ignoring or not acknowledging your presence?

Perhaps rather than say ‘let it go’ perhaps you should be saying ‘perhaps something is ACTUALLY causing these effects?’

Cause and effect in not applied to life challenges?

The cause? I found subtle energy based interferences acting to prevent people from engaging with me, listen to me or acknowledge me. Over the next few weeks I cleared lots of combinations of these. It turns out that there were rather a lot whose aim was to keep me isolated and secluded. I remembering this sort of thing as in being seemingly invisible and unseen happening in other phases of my life too.

As there are no concepts or understandings that ‘SOMETHING’ may be acting upon you to cause these types of situations then people don’t seriously think in these terms.

In fact it’s quite disturbing to think in these terms? Because where do you draw the line?

For you reading this now? How easy is it for you to even just consider the possibility that something hidden and unseen could be acting on you and be responsible for these or OTHER situations happening in your life. Sounds crazy, yes. I could not agree with you more. Sounds crazy.

On the other hand we have concepts such as cause and effect in common and accepted use if not RAMMED into our consciousness. No effect without a CAUSE. It seems that perhaps we are happy to think in cause and effect terms for just about everything EXCEPT for life situations.

Just because your brainwashed by science that subtle energy stuff is nonsense well it must be true? Mustn’t it? On the other hand my clients are steadily disappearing these types of ‘weird’ life issues by getting rid of subtle energy shit which bizarrely turns out to be what was CAUSING them. Getting rid of the subtle energy shit CAUSES strangely enough results in the EFFECTS these were having on my clients no longer happening.

Getting rid of them is perhaps rather a better strategy than of continuously backing into a smaller and smaller ‘let it go’ hole that has you adapting and adjusting in effect shutting down your responses while people STILL ignore, don’t acknowledge or treat you as invisible in particular situations or phases of your life?

Causes . . . . people not acknowledging you, ignoring you treating you as invisible, irrelevant, people not answering you  . . . .

Effect . . . . . that’s fine I’ll shut myself down, I’ll disassociate, desensitise myself to life until these things happening no longer bother me . . . .

Causes . . . . people not acknowledging you, ignoring you, treating you as invisible . . . . STILL HAPPENING . . . . .

Seems a bit of a stupid if not CRAZY!! strategy to me? Might just be the sort of strategy that people super glued to certain ideas or assumptions would use rather than REALLY look for some uncomfortable and maybe scary causes? What do you think?

For those of you suffering from these types ‘CAUSES’ I will sometime put up a site with resources (audio files for you to work with), that will strangely enough actually make you visible, seen and acknowledged. This is unlikely to happen before Mid 2009, but it will happen.

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Comment by Adriana on October 8, 2007 @ 5:32 am

Yes, you can let something go, but if you do not find the source of it, then it comes back again.

Also, if you are being the effect of something, and don’t know what it is or how you contributed to it, or the mechanism of entrapment, then maybe you will continue getting trapped by the same type of thing.

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